Adult Dating

So, he does not want to use condoms and you are stuck between protecting yourself and trusting him? The condom might be just a little rubber but when it comes to protection against sexually transmitted diseases and unwanted pregnancy, this little rubber plays a big role.

Talk to your guy about using condoms. Many women back out of the ‘talking’ phase because of the fear of hurting the guy or to avoid being ‘needy’. Well, health and a chance of pregnancy should be the priority list of every woman who is getting into a sexual relationship with a man.

If you are willing to stop using condoms in your relationship, there must a tremendous trust factor. Make sure the trust is not a blind one. Get your guy tested. A mature and sensible guy concerned about your health would definitely comply. If your man is not willing to get himself tested or accuses you of not trusting him, he is perhaps immature or unworthy of your trust.

Condoms are a form of barrier that you maintain in your sexual relationship. If you and your partner are moving into a phase where you both are weighing your emotions high, it would one phase where you can think about going ‘condomless’ but after getting completely tested. If you both still do not have the emotional quotient for each other, there is no wrong in still demanding a sexual exclusivity from him.

There are many cheap condoms available in the market in a variety of sizes, colors, and textures. If you both have decided to quit the use of condoms in your relationship, make sure you do use some kind of birth control.